Why is it so hard to get a guy to like me? So I'm at this Gay & Lesbian Expo today and I walk past this booth with this incredibly beautiful man. I walk up to him because I recognize him as an actor in this play I saw a few months ago and introduce myself. His name is Alfredo. Beautiful, sweet, gorgeous Alfredo. He smiles an incredibly beautiful smile and talks to me in general, but just doesn't seem at all interested in knowing anything more about me. I felt like he just wanted me to go away. When I see someone that beautiful and a smile that seems to so resonate within my body, it just feels like there should be some kind of connection. But, alas, there isn't and I walk away depressed. Why is it so hard to get a guy to like me?