Will someone please explain to me where friendship fits into life? One of my closest friends from DC is here this weekend visiting his new boyfriend. I didn't even know he's been in town since Friday; I get a call today just to say hi; He's on the plane back to DC tomorrow. No visit with me (his friend for years....)? And then of course there's my husband who I never see anymore since he has his new boyfriend. Where exactly does friendship fit into newfound relationships? Won't someone tell me.