So I'm rummaging through old scraps of paper and I run across the number of the guy who stood me up about a month and a half ago. You know, the guy I never, ever heard from again. I decide to call before throwing it out for good. He's there! He tells me he's been in Asia for a "holiday" for the last month or so. Just a whim. No apology, no thought of me, no discussion of our "date," just tells me he has to get going. WAZZUPWITHAT?