He's a high school wrestler, she said, and there are several times each year when he is matched up against a girl. You don't know what to do, she said. You're afraid to touch them, but if you go easy on them, some of those girls will "beat your butt." So what do you do? Better get used to it....Assertive, unapologetic girls. Kind of looks like a trend, doesn't it? Wrestle with that.