Can someone please update me on gay hidaways? I'm at friday harbor, washington, on the san juan islands. My parents are taking us whale watching and camping. And I'm surrounded by lesbians and a few gay guys. And the grocery store is a major gay cruzon. And the downtown is like a lesbian Castro, but without any rainbow flags or gay stores. And I'm wondering if this place is a specific lesbian tourist destination or a gay mecca like the castro. And I'm finding it odd to be in a lesbian Castro with my straight family from Missouri, and wondering if they even notice it, or if they're blind to it. Either way, my mother wants to move here and watch for whales all day, and I'm now thinking that its gay enough to be comfy for me too.....